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Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Homeschooling

After much thought, a lot of research, and article after article we have decided to homeschool.  At least for Preschool.  We'll decide after that, but more on that later.

Our journey to homeschooling started over a year ago.  I'm not entirely sure where I picked up the idea.  It's so popular now that it really could have been anywhere.  Wherever it was, I'm glad I did.  Since then I have looked at several curriculum plans, planned out multiple years, read many blog posts, and found a lot of convincing studies on topics that concerned me.  Through this process I slowly narrowed down a few choices for Preschool (there are many more I've looked at that only cater to older children).

  1. Calvert.  This was the first option I found.  I loved how interactive their curriculum seems to be, but it didn't seem to involve much reading.  It's secular and very expensive.  
  2. Sonlight.  This is a big brand used mostly by Christians.  They put the emphasis on literature and include multiple stories and poems to read every day.  There are a lot of optional activites that go along with the stories.  It's $325 for the Pre-Kindergarten year.
  3. The Learning Box.  I have a friend in my ward who told me about this a few months ago.  There are different sized boxes (a 3-day, 5-day, and younger 3-day) that include lesson plans and almost everything you would need to do crafts.  It's very interactive.  It is expensive (the cost of sending a kid to an in-home Preschool) but it is cheaper if you pre-order for multiple kids.  There is a base price of around $50, and every child after that is an extra $5 (just for craft supplies).  
I looked at all three way too much.  They all have pros and cons.  I eventually decided to go with Sonlight with a few changes.  The optional activites have become a must, and I'm adding at least one craft project a day.  You can see the first three weeks worth of curriculum online and I've scoured Pinterest for craft ideas to go along with the books and stories scheduled.  Hopefully we will have a package on our front porch by tomorrow and we can start next Monday.

There are a lot of reasons why the homeschool idea stuck with us.  The biggest reason is cost.  $325 for a year (not including crafts and a few activity costs) is hard to beat.  Around here in-home programs are around $60 a month, the school district programs are $80 a month, and most private Preschools start at $100 a month.   Another big reason is being able to start Michael when he showed interest in school, which now he does.  He asks everyday when he can start Preschool.  Because of his age he would normally have to wait until next fall, but this way he doesn't have to.  Other reasons include: he sleeps in late and still needs a nap in the afternoon making morning or afternoon Preschool difficult, Elli can join in instead of crying the whole time he's gone, he can build up his attention span slowly instead of being expected to instantly pay attention to a teacher for an hour+, he has people close to his age to socialize with at home, and I don't believe kids really learn how to socialize by being around a bunch of other kids their age who don't know how to socialize.  

For now the plan is just Preschool, but we will see.  I'm not against homeschooling later on if one of our kids doesn't seem to be excelling in public school.  We'll just take it one day and one year at a time.

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Conversations with Crumpets

Me:  Elli I love you.
Elli:  Thank you mommy!

Michael has been saying some really cute prayers lately
Michael:  Bless us to have cookies.  Help us go zoo.  Bless us eat apples.  Bless us eat candy.

Me:  Elli, did you hit Michael?
Elli:  Uh huh!
Me:  Why?
Elli:  Michael hit me.
Me:  Are you sure?
Elli:  Yeah (with the biggest smile on her face)
*twenty seconds later*
Michael:  Elli hit me again!

Josh:  Michael, stop it!
Michael:  No!  I very, very sad.  I so, so, so sick.  I'm very, very mad!

Me:  What's you name?
Elli:  Summer!

Josh was leaving for work and Elli saw him
Elli:  No!  I come, I come!  Cuddle me!

Michael:  I want fruit. (x10)
Me:  For your snack in an hour.
Michael:  Stop asking me mommy.

My sister Brooke and her husband Nick took some family pictures of us
Elli:  Bye-bye Nickey Mouse!

Elli has had a runny nose
Michael:  Mommy, Elli's nose is running away.

Michael:  You don't get dessert, I tickle you!

Elli went to timeout for hitting me
Me:  What did you do wrong?
Elli:  Michael hit me!

Friday, October 24, 2014

Pumpkin Patch

Forgive me while I try and catch up on the last few months of out lives.  You'll see a lot of backdated posts.

Right before Halloween we decided we should get the kids some pumpkins.  Life has been a little crazy with Josh working two jobs, and we didn't think about pumpkins.  Luckily Josh had the Friday before Halloween off and we went to a pumpkin patch.




We loved watching these little monsters going through the small maze.  Except when Michael got lost for a total of 5 seconds and started screaming his head off.



We let them pick out their own pumpkins.  Michael's first pick was a 20lb pumpkin.  Luckily he changed his mind to a small 2 pounder he could carry around.  He also picked out a pumpkin for Ethan.  Elli, in true Elli fashion, ran way into the middle of the field and carried her little pumpkin back to us.  Ethan just hung out and ate my hair.




One of my favorite pictures of all time


Thursday, October 23, 2014

Picasso

I rarely let my kids do any art projects.  I should let them do more, but honestly it's just a pain in the butt.  Elli is constantly eating crayons or sucking the juice out of markers.  Michael is yelling at her not to do it.  Ethan isn't content to sit and watch from his high chair.  One or more kids needs a nap.  One or more kids is hungry.  Half the time they need a bath right after.  I have to strip them down so they don't ruin their clothes, but they scream about not wearing anything.  You get the idea.  It's suddenly not fun and more of a chore for everyone involved.

A while ago I posted about how I didn't let Elli color for a long time.  I've let her color more, to the detriment of multiple markers.  We've had fun.  Really, we have.  Especially the next day when I change her diaper and discover she must have ate another crayon when I ran to get more paper.  Thank goodness Crayola is non-toxic.

I'm gearing up to start Michael in Preschool really soon (this is a post for another day though) and decided he needed a little more work with artistic things before I start doing crafts all day long.  So I let him paint.  I bought a ten pack of paints and found a day where Michael woke up from his nap before Elli.   He did great.  He loved painting and even got the concept of dipping the paint brush in water between colors.


His favorite thing to paint was Mike Wazowski.  As you can see he had me paint one in the corner.  He did have a problem with painting so much in the same area that the paper ripped.  Hopefully that will get better.

After he got the concept I decided to let Elli try the next day.


It's hard to tell from this picture, but there is a streak of brown paint coming out the side of her mouth.  Ten minutes later her paper wasn't painted any more than pictured, her face was yellow, and her paper plate had some pretty rainbow swirls.  How do I get this child to stop eating markers/crayons/paint/dirt??

Now the kids ask to paint every day.  Maybe I should have thought this through a little more first, but I like my wall covered in Picasso's of Mike Wazowski.

Sunday, October 19, 2014

Conversations with Crumpets

Michael had a wipe in his hand and was wiping the ground
Me:  What are you doing?
Michael:  I'm wiping the sidewalk.  The ground is dirty!

Michael:  I NEED to clean the car mom.

Elli:  Poke.  Poke.  Poke.
Michael:  No touching me Elli!
A minute later
Michael:  Poke you Elli!  Poke my belly button!

Michael picked up a toy phone
Michael:  Hello?  Oh, hi!  Oh, my phone's dying.  I'll talk to you later!

We went out to dinner and Josh was taking Michael to the bathroom
Josh:  Come on buddy, this was.
Elli:  I coming!  I coming!

Michael was awake most of the night one night this week.  Josh went in to check on him.
Josh:  Why aren't you sleeping?
Michael:  There is a crocodile under my bed.
Josh:  No there isn't, let me show you.
Michael:  Yes there is!
He acted scared the rest of the night.  Then the next morning...
Michael:  Mommy I had a crocodile under my bed!
Me:  Really?  Were you scared of it?
Michael:  No!

Me:  What book do you want to read before bed?
Elli:  Train book, train book!  Mommy I sit lap!

Elli:  A B C D E F G Mickey Mouse!  H I J K L M M M M O P Mickey Mouse!  Q R S T U V W X W Z Mickey Mouse!

Michael and Elli LOVE Taylor Swifts Shake it Off, mostly because I found a Youtube video of a dad and daughter dancing to it....and it involves a horse mask
Elli:  Shake it off, shake it off!  Play, play, play.  Shake it off!

Michael:  I want to paint Michael Wazowski.
Me:  Oh Mike.
Michael:  No Mike.  I'm Mikey
Me:  Hi Mikey!
Michael:  No!  You not call me Mikey, I'm Michael!
Me:  Okay Michael.
Michael:  No, I not Michael Wazowski.

Michael:  Mommy you're pretty!  Let's put a dress on you!

Michael:  Elli you're cute!

Elli:  Airplane!
repeated a thousand times a day when she sees a plane

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Oh Parenting.


These three cute kids are perfect.  They really are.  Except when they aren't.  Even then they are still perfect.  Doesn't make much sense, does it?

Parenting is difficult.  One moment Michael is finishing a 60 piece puzzle by himself, Elli is counting to 10, and Ethan is laughing.  The next Michael is screaming while throwing train pieces, Elli is biting everyone in sight, and Ethan is spitting up sweet potato on the carpet for the 50th time.  There are days where I could say parenting is easy.  Then the next, parenting is a pain in the butt.  Let's be honest though, most days I go between those two extremes at least a hundred times.  Right at this moment I'm thinking this is easy, only because all three are napping.  Ten minutes ago I was telling yelling at Michael to go potty, I was forcing Elli to go to time-out because she was jumping on a puzzle, and I was forcefully ripping my hair out of Ethan's hands as he screamed.

For a while it was hard to not give in to these moments and have a mini-breakdown.  Lately I just go with it.  I have to keep telling myself that even if they are horrible all day they will all be smiling as I read them a story right before bed.  That moment every night where everything is perfect is what I look forward to all day.  I keep that perfect image in my head.  When we do have a few perfect moments throughout the day it's like Christmas came early.  The rest of the time - when everything is crazy - I just hold on to that perfect image and somehow these cute little monsters are still perfect, they are just learning.

Friday, October 10, 2014

Conversations with Crumpets

Michael went in the garage and closed the door so he was sitting in the dark
Josh:  Did you have fun out there in the dark?
Michael:  Yeah, I died.

Josh:  Give us a kiss before bed.
Michael:  But I kissed you last night.

Michael:  The mosquitos are gonna get me!

Me:  Michael count with me.  One.
Michael:  Two
Elli:  Three!
Michael:  No, three!
Elli:  Four!
Michael:  Four!
Elli:  Five!
Michael:  No Five!
Elli: Six!
Michael:  Eleven, twelve, thirteen!
Elli:  Seven!

Michael:  So I have a question for you.
Me:  What?
*silence*
Me:  What's this question?
Michael:  Ummm....I want to make you icecream!
Me:  Yummy what kind?
Michael:  No, a sandwich!
Me:  What kind of sandwich?
Michael:  A cooked sandwich!
Me:  How are you going to cook it?
Michael:  Because I want to!

Elli:  Look!
Me:  That's a bug.
Elli:  Bugs!
Michael:  Eww I don't like bugs.  They bug me.
Me:  That's what they're there for.
Michael:  Jenna says I bug her.
Me:  I'm sure you do sometimes.
Michael:  Me too.

Thursday, October 9, 2014

Attitude



This pretty little girl is full of so much attitude.  Luckily she's still little enough that it's been more cute than frustrating.  Believe me, we are scared for her to hit the terrible two's.  Until then, we'll enjoy the cuteness her little attitude brings.

Wednesday, October 8, 2014

4 months

At least I took these pictures on the day he was four months, even if it took me over a week to upload them.  I also lost the "4" I used with the other two, so I had to come up with something else.



It's hard for me to think that 1/3 of Ethan's first year is gone.  How could it be gone already?  When did he get so big?  I miss my snuggly newborn.  Oh well, he's still adorable.

Here's what Ethan's been up to:

  • Growing like crazy.  He weighs 13lbs 6oz and is 24" long.
  • Working on tummy time.  He pushes himself around in circles and holds his head up really well.
  • Sitting in the Bumbo.  He loves the Bumbo.  Here's proof that he's loved it for a long time:
Just napping
  • Babbling.  He talks a lot (just like his siblings).  He says consonants every now and then, like the other day Elli was making farm animal sounds and Ethan threw in a few moo's.
  • Getting kissed.  By everyone.  Michael has to give him multiple kisses a day or he gets upset.  Elli kisses him before bed every night.  With the giant cheeks of his who wouldn't want to kiss him?
  • Enjoying getting out.  Instead of always falling asleep everywhere we go he's been staying awake long enough to experience the zoo, stores, parks, and seeing firefighters.
Overall this little guy is doing amazing.  We're happy this cutie is part of the family.






Sunday, October 5, 2014

Conversations with Crumpets

Me: Do you want a nap?
Michael:  Yes I so so tired.

Lately Michael has been telling people what they can and can't do, and putting them in time-out.
Michael:  Ouch you hurt me.  I said you no hurt Michael.  Go to time-out!

Me:  Okay you can watch a movie.
Michael:  Frozen, Toy Story, Monsters, Brave!
Elli:  Anna Elsa!
Me:  Elli what do you want?
Elli:  Anna Elsa!

Michael:  Mommy you eat salad?  I have some salad, I just love salad!
I give him a bite and he spits it out
Michael:  No, I hate salad!  Mommy why you eat salad?

Michael:  Mommy you go running?
Me:  Yes, I'm going after you go to bed.
Michael:  No I don't sleep, I need to go running.

Me:  Elli who's you favorite?
Elli:  Jenna, Michael!

Me:  We need to go to the doctor.
Michael:  Michael see the doctor?
Me:  No, just Ethan today.
Michael:  I want to go to the doctor.
Me:  Well you can go next time, you have to go every year around your birthday.
Michael:  No I not go doctor.  Ethan go doctor.  Ethan get shots!

Michael sang the song 'clap your hands and shout for joy' in nursery
Michael:  Clap your hands and soccer ball!
Me:  What?  Soccer ball?
Michael:  Kick the ball!
Me:  No its shout for joy.  Clap your hands and shout for joy.
Michael:  No, soccer ball!  I'm right! 

Michael:  Hi mommy!  Change my poopy!